Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Annabelle Blue's WTF?

WTF @ Men + Relationships?!?!

Recently, I was having a conversation with a friend about men (boys?) in relationships. Duh, what else is new? Basically, we have decided boys are lazy and don't like to work for things. They'd rather stick with someone or something that isn't working and have a girl on the side . . .if it's comfortable. As soon as one girl starts to pressure him and make things uncomfortable by issuing an ultimatum, he freaks out. Usually he breaks things off with the girl on the side because it's just easier that way. My friend is currently in that situation . . .

Are men really that afraid of being alone? Are they that insecure? Or does it really just come down to getting sex as easily as possible?

I don't know, but I've found myself in the position as "girl on the side" a couple of times, and let me tell you, it's lonely and very frustrating. Is it really that hard for men to just follow their hearts? Maybe the guy just isn't that into her (or me or you), but it makes no excuse for someone to stick with someone just because they're comfortable and convenient. By that logic, I'd be sticking at my job. But I like to take chances. I like happiness. You only get one shot at life. Don't eff it up.

What do you think?

* * *

I would love for Annabelle Blue to be more interactive. In order for this to become more of a conversation, I'd like you guys to give me feedback on this or anything else you read on my blog. Please feel free to leave comments by clicking on the "leave comment" link at the bottom of each entry.

3 comments:

e.s. said...

Yes, Men are lazy. That's all it comes down to.

Men are constantly on the prowl for something better. They are never content with what they have. When something tempting comes along, they want to test it out before they totally get rid of their girlfriend. Then the debate comes over whether they should leave their girlfriend or not. Ultimately they end up getting sick of the other girl because she is pressuring him to make up his mind.

Basically, we make the decision for them, proving in fact that men are lazy.

annabelle blue said...
This comment has been removed by the author.
annabelle blue said...

Right on! I completely agree.

Thanks for giving me some of your input!